You’re Not Behind. You’re Just Carrying Too Much


An Encouraging Anchor for Your Week

Freedom from Overthinking & Fear

Have you ever woken up in the morning and still felt the ache from the day before?

And when I say ache, I mean that lingering heaviness; the weight of everything you had to do, show up for (with a smile), decide, and mentally carry.

Yeah… I had one of those days this week. And it was a hot mess. A hot mess with very little rest, and definitely not my finest of days.

I felt pulled in a hundred directions, where everything seemed urgent and important. And the worst part? I couldn’t finish one task before starting another.

Every time I tried to focus, something or someone needed me. And rather than pausing to think things through and complete what was in front of me, I kept jumping. Like, really jumping.

From task to task. From tab to tab. From email to email.

The result? A dozen open “windows”… and a gnawing feeling that I was somehow being less productive, not more.

Why was everything taking so long? Why did it feel like I was facing one blocker after another? Why couldn’t I catch my breath?

Ugggghhh.

So the next morning, I brought that heaviness straight to God in my journal.

And do you know what He gently placed on my heart?

“You’re overanalyzing… because you’re afraid to fail.”

Whoa, and there it was. Talk about a humbling (but loving) moment. (And when I did Whoa, I did, Whooooooaaaa)

If I’m totally transparent, it wasn’t just about being “busy," it was deeper than that.

It was that honest moment that God showed me that I'm struggling with fear.

Fear of disappointing my clients. Fear of not being seen as capable in my role, or in what God may have in store for me next. Fear of saying the wrong thing, making the wrong call, or being judged for it. Fear of letting the amazing people that I'm blessed to work with down. Fear of letting myself down.

And in that moment, I had to call it what it was:.

Lies from the pit of hell.

LIES, people!

Analysis paralysis, at its core, is often rooted in fear of failure.

We overthink. We overanalyze. We chase perfection. All in an effort to not get it wrong.

And while we think we’re in control, we simply end up stuck, overwhelmed, and completely drained.

And let’s be clear: This is not how God designed us to live.

So why, oh why, do we keep doing it?

Because as long as we’re walking in the flesh, we’re going to struggle with full surrender to God. Full surrender in our day-to-day, minute by minute.

The enemy and the world tells us to take charge. But God says, “I’m in control. I designed you. Trust me, I have a good plan for you—if you give it to Me.” (Proverbs 3:5-6) (Jeremiah 29:11 (Psalm 37:23)

The enemy - the King of Lies, whispers we’re not good enough (1 Peter 5:8). But God says, “You are fearfully and wonderfully made. I have designed you with gifts that only you have, and with a purpose that only YOU can fulfill.” (Psalm 139:14) (Romans 12:6)

Let me remind you today what His Truth is and always will be:

God meets us where we are in the middle of our fears (Psalm 34:4), shines His extraordinary power through our weaknesses (2 Corinthians 12:9), promises to provide us with His strength in all the things we need to do (Isaiah 40:29), and grants us peace that surpasses all understanding as we figure it out, moment by moment, day by day (Philippians 4:6–7)

I pray that when the lies of defeat and fear of failure attempt to rob you of your joy, your peace, and your understanding of who He is and the goodness He’s promised, you will remember these verses, hold them in your heart, and use them as your sword.

Remember, the battle is already won.

Our job is to keep our eyes on Christ, fill heaven by spreading the gospel to anyone with ears to hear, and walk in that unexplainable gift of joy and peace...living each day to the very best He’s called us to.

Praying for you, Reader

In Love and Christ,

Dorene Elizabeth

P.S. Keep reading for our Prayer, Verse & Challenge for the week.


Verse of the Week

2 Timothy 1:7
"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."

Let this be your anchor this week: Fear does not come from God. Clarity does. Peace does. His Power does.

Write down, read it out loud, and repeat it each day.

💛 Challenge of the Week

This week, we’re keeping it simple—but intentional.

When you feel yourself slipping into overthinking, pause and do this one thing:

👉🏽 Name the task. Pray. Then finish it before moving on.

No jumping. No spiraling. No chasing perfection. Just:

  • One task
  • One prayer
  • One step of obedience

And when fear attempts to creep in? Speak this out loud:

“God did not give me a spirit of fear. I will move forward with power, love, and a sound mind.”


🙏🏽 Prayer of the Week

Heavenly Father, thank You for meeting me right where I am, even in the middle of my overwhelm, my overthinking, and my fear.

Jesus, You see the weight I’ve been carrying. You know the pressure I feel to get it right, to show up well, and to not fall short. But today, I’m choosing to lay all of that at Your feet of the cross.

Help me to release the need to control every outcome. Quiet my mind when it starts to spiral, and remind me that You have not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

Teach me to trust You in the middle of unfinished tasks, unanswered questions, and uncertain next steps. Strengthen me to focus on what’s in front of me, and give me the wisdom to move with intention instead of anxiety.

Lord, replace every lie with Your Truth. Where I feel inadequate, remind me I am equipped. Where I feel overwhelmed, remind me You are in control. Where I feel stuck, remind me You are guiding my steps.

Thank You for Your peace that surpasses all understanding, even when life feels messy. I surrender this day, this week, and every detail to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.


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